by Rabbi Friedman The Guilford Press New York London ©1990. Reprinted with permission. There was a man who had given much thought to what he wanted from life. He had experienced many moods and trials. He had experimented with different ways of living, and he had his share of both success and failure. At last, [...]
Does Masturbating Make You a Sex Addict? What About Porn? What About Bondage? Even the Experts Can’t Agree.
Others include Joe Kort, a sexologist and former sex-addiction therapist who has defected, and who wrote a blog in late 2015 renouncing the sex-addiction model. “I think it is... very harmful to gay and bisexual men,” Kort, who is gay, told The Daily Beast of the sex-addiction model. “It’s gotten a lot worse in the last five-to-seven years [...]
The Turtle & the Hail Storm: Speaking of Partnership Dr. Kort is a leading expert on sex and relationships. He specializes in Out-of-Control Sexual Behaviors (OCSB)/“sex addiction”, Relationship Problems & Marital Conflict, Sex Therapy, Sexual Identity Concerns, Depression, Anxiety and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. He has authored 4 books and [...]
FROM A SCIENTIFIC PERSPECTIVE, SEX ADDICTION IS NOT REAL. Problematic sexual behavior, on the other hand, is very real and consumers need to be protected from sex addiction therapists who are not adequately trained in human sexuality. Founded in 1967, the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) [...]
What if we thought of monogamy as a spectrum? "The study revealed two important findings. First, millennials like myself are less interested in monogamy than our elders are. Second, millennials don’t view monogamy as all or nothing. We realize that, like sexuality and gender, relationships can exist on a spectrum. And [...]
AASECT Releases Historic Position Statement on Sex Addiction Sex therapy certifying organization cannot endorse sex addiction model. On Nov 29, 2016, the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists released a historic position statement about the sex addiction model. Click here to read more.
Looking for a Third? These Guys Are Down Read an article where I am interviewed about why straight men enjoy three-ways. ...straight men do want to have threesomes and explore their sexual boundaries. But the fact is the experiences, like the apps that enable them, can be glitchy." https://features.wearemel.com/looking-for-a-third-these-guys-are-down-10f1076fcd4#.t3rbsdcah [...]
Can Porn Enhance a Couple’s Sex Life? Dr Joe Kort offers therapy to couples and notes that many women remain wary of porn, especially if they have caught their male partner watching it in secret. They will often equate this discovery with real-life infidelity. However, “porn can absolutely be a [...]
Grace and Frankie Sexuality and Aging I just finished watching the second season of Grace and Frankie, the Netflix produced series about two women who find out that their husbands are not just law firm partners, but also have been lovers for the past 20 years. The series starts out [...]
Sex Counseling / The Top 3 Reasons: Why Men, Women & Couples Need Help Sex Counseling and Erectile Disorders – The # 1 Problem for which Men Seek Help Men enter sex counseling most often due to erectile disorders (ED). For most men, getting and maintaining an erection [...]