Sex Counseling / The Top 3 Reasons: Why Men, Women & Couples Need Help You have 3 brains: Your frontal lobe which can reason, the limbic system which experiences fear and pleasure and your brain stem which scans for danger and safety. When dating, if you don't understand [...]
Every couple should be having 2 conversations One about the relationship and another about the sexual part of their relationship.
Imago Relationship Therapy for Singles Learn more about the upcoming imago relationship singles class starting March 21, 2016
Loving a partner with Asperger’s can be both challenging and rewarding On my first date with Mike — we’ve been partners now for 24 years – he asked me “Are we on a date?” And the second date, he asked “Are we still dating? I thought it was so sweet and [...]
IMAGO Therapy & the first two Stages of Love: Romantic Love & Power Struggle This video talks about my workshops on IMAGO Relationship Therapy. I describe the first two stages of love and what attracts us to a partner and what causes conflict. The next video will be [...]
The final stage of love: Real Love Here I talk about how couples make it to real love, love that is based on reality. I talk about the turtle and the hailstorm as well as how we are attractive to familiar love. It is no accident we are [...]
Are You a High T or a Low T? Jerry and Linda came to me to help them with their marital problems. He felt that she had tricked him into marrying her by “pretending” to have a high sex drive, and believed that Linda was now withholding sex in an [...]
FROM A SCIENTIFIC PERSPECTIVE, SEX ADDICTION IS NOT REAL. Problematic sexual behavior, on the other hand, is very real and consumers need to be protected from sex addiction therapists who are not adequately trained in human sexuality. Founded in 1967, the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) [...]
What if we thought of monogamy as a spectrum? "The study revealed two important findings. First, millennials like myself are less interested in monogamy than our elders are. Second, millennials don’t view monogamy as all or nothing. We realize that, like sexuality and gender, relationships can exist on a spectrum. And [...]
AASECT Releases Historic Position Statement on Sex Addiction Sex therapy certifying organization cannot endorse sex addiction model. On Nov 29, 2016, the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists released a historic position statement about the sex addiction model. Click here to read more.
