Is Porn Really an Addiction?
Is porn really an addiction? Is our country really in a national health crisis because of it?
Mommy Nearest: When a Mother Sexually Abuses Her Son
Mommy Nearest: When a mother sexually abuses her son There has been much research on girls sexually abused by adult males, and there are many books and research articles on fathers who commit incest with their daughters. Yet there’s little on females sexually abusing children—particularly boys—and especially not their own [...]
Sexual Fluidity
Sexual Fluidity Can straight men and women have sex with the same gender and still be straight? Can gays and lesbians have sex with the other gender and still be gay and lesbian? How is heteroflexibility and homoflexibilty different than bisexuality? Is Bisexuality real? [...]
Mixed Orientation Marriage (MOM) and Relationships (MORE): One straight spouse, one LGBT and Sexually Fluid partner
Mixed Orientation Marriage (MOM) & Relationships (MORE): 1 straight spouse, 1 LGBT & Sexually Fluid partner We are beginning a series of videos and in-person discussion groups in Royal Oak, MI titled, "Smart Sex-Smart Love" where we will be addressing relationship issues and sexual issues. Learn more here. The dates and [...]
Dating and Your Brain
Sex Counseling / The Top 3 Reasons: Why Men, Women & Couples Need Help You have 3 brains: Your frontal lobe which can reason, the limbic system which experiences fear and pleasure and your brain stem which scans for danger and safety. When dating, if you don't understand [...]
Imago Relationship Therapy for Singles
Imago Relationship Therapy for Singles Learn more about the upcoming imago relationship singles class starting March 21, 2016
Loving a Partner with Asperger’s Can Be Both Challenging and Rewarding
Loving a partner with Asperger’s can be both challenging and rewarding On my first date with Mike — we’ve been partners now for 24 years – he asked me “Are we on a date?” And the second date, he asked “Are we still dating? I thought it was so sweet and [...]
IMAGO Therapy and the first two Stages of Love: Romantic Love and Power Struggle
IMAGO Therapy & the first two Stages of Love: Romantic Love & Power Struggle This video talks about my workshops on IMAGO Relationship Therapy. I describe the first two stages of love and what attracts us to a partner and what causes conflict. The next video will be [...]
The final stage of love: Real Love
The final stage of love: Real Love Here I talk about how couples make it to real love, love that is based on reality. I talk about the turtle and the hailstorm as well as how we are attractive to familiar love. It is no accident we are [...]
Are You a High T or a Low T?
Are You a High T or a Low T? Jerry and Linda came to me to help them with their marital problems. He felt that she had tricked him into marrying her by “pretending” to have a high sex drive, and believed that Linda was now withholding sex in an [...]